i've been making friends over arguying with haters
sounds absurd? it may be XD but in the end I won the fight and that person had a closer listen - and started liking what he heard... xD
It's all a matter of which weapons / words you choose for such a battle
I pray fade-fandom won't turn into the same kind of thing, as Dears though... there is some really scary stuff going on sometimes and so much jealousy... *sigh* I'm truelly afraid the same will happen with fade-family as it grows...